Sexual Healing - NicTovey.com
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Sexual Healing

Sexual energy is the most powerful force there is. It is the creative life-force of the universe. And when we are in our optimal state of health and vitality this energy is flowing freely through us as pleasure, power and creativity.

 

Our sexual energy can become blocked, restricted or distorted by such things as; physical, emotional or sexual trauma, negative self image, or body or sex shame. This can prevent our ability to experience the fullness of our sexual potential and can lead to sexual, intimacy and relational dysfunction.

 

Sacred Sexual Healing is an energetic body work modality which, using a combination of meditation, breathwork, ritual and sensual massage, enables you to connect with and optimise your natural flow of sexual energy. You are guided to reconnect with your body and experience the full spectrum of sensation, whilst safely working with the emotional and physical restrictions that may be in the way of your pleasure potential.

 

In a Sacred Sexual healing session I combine 13 years of experience in Transpersonal Counselling, Coaching, Energetic Healing, Tantra and Sacred Sexuality to hold you in a safe and sacred space to allow for a transformational healing experience to occur with deep respect and honour for you and where you are on your personal evolutionary journey.

 

Your Sacred Sexual Healing session will be guided according to your unique needs, desires and boundaries, all of which will be clearly discussed and agreed upon prior to the commencement of the work. Communication will remain open throughout the session and consent will always be gained before any progression.

 

During the session you will be guided to connect with your breath, your sensation, your arousal state and your emotions as they arise. Using body work and energetic techniques stored emotion, blocks and past trauma can be released. Here lies within the creative force of the universe; your sexual energy. As you harness the power of this energy you have an infinite resource of power, pleasure and passion available to be utilised in all areas of your life, not only your love life.

 

Whilst orgasm is never the “goal” in Sacred Sexual Healing, it is likely that you will experience heightened states of arousal and waves of full bodied orgasmic bliss. It is also likely that you could experience emotional release during the session as we access stores of repressed emotion; fear, anger, grief, Joy and ecstasy, all is welcome.

 

Sexual Healing can be received with individual sessions of 1.5, 2 or 3 hours. Note that a minimum of 2 hours is required for an initial session.

 

Alternatively, for a deeper and more structured process, you can engage in the RAW Embodiment Program. Click below for more information.

What Others Say

  • “From start to finish the Sexual Healing Session I had with Nic was great. His language is clear, his touch sensitive and his intent embodies and manifests as full integrity. I'm still feeling it integrating days later.“

    - GB

  • “I would like to express my profound gratitude to Nic, who so beautifully, deeply and expertly held the space and gave me my initiation and Sacred Spot ceremony. This was one of the most profound healings I have experienced... and I've been in the health/healing profession 27 years. It was certainly the most intimate! Thank you dear brother, for your love, devotion to your craft, your passion, professionalism and skill, and for holding me in such a Divine yet fully grounded way. Needless to say, Nic comes highly recommended!”

    - Isy

  • “I recently experienced a beautiful Yoni massage with Nic. He set up the space beautifully and I instantly felt safe, honoured and loved by his presence and respect. Nic is a deeply caring, loving man who holds the utmost integrity. He held space for me to unfold and surrender to the massage with ease and I am truly grateful for the experience. Thank you, Nic.”

    - Juliet Allen - Sexologist

RAW Embodiment Program

An 8 session initiatory process of Sexual and Relational Empowerment

Sexual Healing Sessions

For Women

I offer you an opportunity to be held, revered, liberated and worshipped as all that you are; your power, vulnerability, radiance and your wild mysterious nature. This is an invitation for you to come home and reconnect with your divine feminine self, to let go, surrender and allow yourself to be taken deep into your ocean of infinite bliss.

 

Depending on your needs the session could follow many threads; there can be a combination of any or all of the following:

coaching

emotional release

breath-work

meditation and visualisation

sensual massage

body de-armouring

Yoni massage and Sacred Spot healing

 

This is a very special gift to yourself.

 

Some of the many benefits of Sacred Sexual Healing include:

enhanced sexual pleasure

increased confidence

release intimacy blocks

reduce vaginal pain

achieving deeper, longer orgasms

help lubrication

release trauma

deep relaxation

re-ignite feminine life-force energy

For Men

I offer you the opportunity to become a more present, embodied, vibrant and sexually masterful man. To come home and connect with the depth of who you are; physically, emotionally and spiritually, so you can then show up fully in all areas of your life. As a man who has been counselling and coaching men for the last 10 years, I have much to offer you.

 

As men we have been conditioned to be detached from our body, our emotions and our deep erotic nature, this limits any real intimate connection to a partner. This also means that sexually we are often either disconnected from or over powered by our sexual energy. Sexual energy is the most powerful force in the universe, it has the power to create as well as destroy.  Therefore we have a responsibility to learn how to master its power.

 

When we unlock and master our sexual energy we can experience expansive levels of full bodied pleasure, we can help our partner open to experience states of ecstatic bliss, and together we can ride a wave of ecstasy for as long as we choose. Not only that, our sexual potency then becomes an infinite resource of creative power that we can utilise in all aspects of life. Our sexual energy can also be blocked because of past emotional, physical or sexual trauma. This is also catered for with honour, respect and safety.

 

Depending on your needs the session could follow many threads; there can be a combination of any or all of the following:

coaching

emotional release

breath-work

meditation and visualisation

body de-armouring

Sensual massage

Lingam massage and Sacred Spot healing

 

This is your gift to yourself.

 

Some of the many benefits of Sacred Sexual Healing include:

increased sexual pleasure

prolonged arousal

increase sexual confidence

eliminate premature ejaculation

reduce erectile dysfunction

deep relaxation

remove blocks to intimacy

For Couples

I combine my skills as a Relationship and Intimacy Coach with Sexual Healing to provide you both with the tools, the awareness and the permission to deepen your intimacy, to discover each other anew, and take your relationship to the next level.

 

Relationships, intimacy and sex were not things we learned at school, and most of our parents didn’t have much of a clue either, so we’ve had to work it out for ourselves, on the job, and of course we’ve all made some mistakes along the way.

 

Today many couples are sensing new possibilities available in their relationship; they yearn to co-create an incubator for their personal and mutual growth, built on deep heart connection, raw and open communication and expansive, passionate intimacy. In your couples session we will explore how, together, you can make this a reality.

 

In a safe, sacred and fun space you will be guided to explore techniques in deep connection, sensual touch, sex magic, communication, boundaries and consent. Each session is catered to your specific needs, goals and desires which will be discussed at the beginning of the session. Respect, boundaries and communication are always paramount.

 

As your guide, while there may be some touch for demonstration purposes, always with consent, I do not participate in any sexual activity, but assist you along in your exploration together.

 

This is an opportunity for you both to re-meet each other at a depth you may never have known, to discover, explore and expand into an emotional, erotic and spiritual connection you’ve only ever dreamed of.

Sexual Healing Fees

Individuals

1.5 hours: $350

2 hours: $400

3 hours: $500

Note: A minimum of 3 hours is required for an initial session to ensure a safe and comfortable rapport is created

 

Couples

3 hours: $600

4 hours: $750

Note: A minimum of 4 hours is required for an initial session to ensure a safe and comfortable rapport is created

1, 2 and 3 day immersive residential retreats are also available upon request. Enquire to discus more

Current Locations

Surry Hills, Sydney

Byron Bay

Home visits within the Sydney and Byron Shire area are available for an additional $50

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