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Relationship, Intimacy and Sexuality Coaching and Psychotherapy
couples counselling, relationship coaching, relationship therapy, sexuality, tantra, mens coaching, intimacy,
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Become your own unique version of an awesome man, free from the old bullshit ideas of what that means.


“Man up”, “be a man”, “grow a pair” we’ve heard it all a million times, and we’ve probably said it too, but what does it mean? What is it to “be a man”? This is a question men have been pondering for eons, and in the process, have been setting up some imaginary, barely achievable bar that we’ve been measuring ourselves up against, and failing.


What it means to be a man today is a very different thing than it was for our fathers, and especially for their fathers. We are living in a monumental chapter in the human evolutionary story, where the realms of gender, sexuality and relationships are in a state of massive reinvention. Many of us are waking up to a new way of being, sensing that there’s more to life as a man, free from the old and outdated cage of manhood. But there are few examples of how to do what the world today is calling for and we are left trying to work it out for ourselves…


Available in Kindle and paperback on Amazon here


A raw and honest exploration into all things sex, love and relationships

Between the Sheets with Nic & Steph is a podcast exploring all things sex, love and relationships. Your hosts are yours truly and Sexologist  and intimacy guide Stephanie Curtis. We are experts in their fields and we also happen to be deeply in love and in a committed relationship. So not only do you get to share in our professional wisdom, you also get an insight to the joys and challenges we navigate in our own personal experiences. You can learn more about Stephanie and her work at


All episodes of the podcast are available to listen to here.


And you can follow and subscribe to the podcast on iTunes here


The Dad Train

I was honoured to do this interview on The Dad Train, particularly in this challenging time of the COVID pandemic where theres a great potential for our relationships to experience added levels of pressure.

In this conversation Scott and I discuss all things relationships – from conflict to parenting.

I’d love to read any comments or questions you may have.


Online Courses

Stoking the Fire is a 7 day online program for couples. Providing powerful insight, wisdom and practical skills to help you reignite the passionate fire in your relationship and keep it alight.


Click here to find out more and register