NicTovey.com Coaching
Relationship and Couple's Counselling
couples counselling, relationship counselling, relationship therapy, intimacy,
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Work With Me

The primary focus of my therapeutic practice is couples and relationship counselling — helping partners work through conflict, rebuild trust, cultivate robust and sustainable partnership, and reconnect with each other after a disruption.

That being said, I do also work with individuals, often around relationship patterns, dating, communication, and personal growth, but also for other personal matters such as trauma, life transitions, anxiety and depression, grief, and finding meaning.

Sessions are client-centred, trauma-informed and solution focused, drawing on Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT) and Relational Life Therapy (RLT), with influence from various modalities such as narrative therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and existential psychotherapy. Whether you’re working through a specific rupture as a couple, or on your own relationship patterns individually, we’ll work collaboratively, towards your goals at a pace that suits you.

Sessions are held via video call, so you can work with me from anywhere in Australia or internationally.

If you’d like to book, click below to see my availability and schedule a session.

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What Others Say

  • Nic Tovey has the skills, knowledge, wisdom and passion to help you through this journey of life and bring you back to a state of self love, and love for all around us. The skills he teaches help you to learn to love and trust yourself again, and this in turn teaches you how to treat others properly. You get so much more out of this experience though, for example: ways to deal with stress. During my sessions with Nic I noticed myself seeing things from a very different angle, a more positive one. Negativity from the past doesn’t haunt me like it did before. Above all Nic is passionate about his work and is a great teacher. I thank him very much and I’ve made a great friend who I’d love to work with again.

    - Matt

  • Working with Nic was a magnificent experience. I learned a lot from his wisdom. And he helped me through rough patches giving me tools and advice to cope much better with emotionally intense situations.

    - Rai

  • Nic facilitated the beginning of my journey away from a suppressed religion into consciousness and owning my own divinity. He is an amazing guide for spirituality, intimacy, relationships and emotional mastery and my life will be forever changed by our work together. Thanks Nic

    - Alex

  • “If you are looking to do something positive for yourself with real results I highly recommend you to see Nic; as he’s not only an inspirational coach, he is also a counsellor that guides you through the changes. Nic, has helped me to offset the negative emotions and patterns that have not worked in the past for me, and turned them into the positive change I am now experiencing. Thank you Nic, for helping me to see the Light.”

    - Hipatia

  • “My experience with Nic has been utterly amazing and life changing. From the beginning I felt comfortable and at ease when in his presence and as time went on I knew he genuinely and deeply cared about my situation and assisting me to make lasting positive changes in my life. Nic empowered me with the tools to face and overcome obstacles and challenges that I could not find the will to deal with and were shadowing over me, stopping me from progressing in all aspects of life. Self improvement is a life long journey and the time I have spent with Nic has been an extremely important and valuable step in my self evolution, one that I will happily use in the future when it is needed.”

    - Kyle

  • “I came into contact with Nic by doing a personal retreat under his guidance. I was deeply impressed by how Nic designed this retreat especially for my purposes. He spared no end in his attempt to achieve that aim. The program was filled with a variety of exercises. We covered so many facets of life’s journey in a short period of time. He looked after me very well, at a time when I felt vulnerable. Nic is a very intelligent man and has a great ability to analyse, surely a vital asset in problem-solving. He is also a very creative man and, he is widely read across many subject areas. Australia is in desperate need of many more male mentors like Nic Tovey.”

    - Barry

  • "Nic Tovey is a soulful, spirited coach who is just what the world needs right now; someone who is deeply passionate about supporting men to navigate the world of modern manhood and also the women who travel with them on their journey. Nic is a very special part of our Academy team as our men's coaching expert. We receive regular feedback that his interview with us, work, and expertise is deeply moving, and in fact, entirely changes the way they see the areas of male emotion, connection and communication - for the better. If you are looking to work with, interview, or bring to your stage a powerful connector on all things 'modern man' then Nic should be top of your list."

    - Julie Parker, CEO & Founder, Beautiful You Coaching Academy

  • “We are a same sex couple who have been in a relationship now for over 20 years. We are married and have a 4 year old set of twins. As with many couples, running a business and parenting small children can get in the way of our intimacy and relationship. It felt very self-indulgent to take this time out to work with Nic on our one-day Intimate Immersion, but it was an amazing experience! Not only did Nic clearly explain the theories of relationship dynamics, he was able to provide valuable insights to help us work out our own dynamic. The theoretical side of his workshop was easy to understand and gave us great insight into how our relationship works and what can get in the way. In my time I have attended many experiential workshops that have been amazing but this one was by far the best! It was the most natural and respectful that I have ever experienced. Thank you Nic for being so caring, so professional and such a great person to spend a day with. We can highly recommend a couples workshop with Nic to anybody that might be wanting to deepen their connection.”

    - James & Daniel

  • “Anybody would benefit from working with Nic to understand their behaviours and beliefs, and the way our complex minds work! Working with Nic as a couple has strengthened our relationship and cast light on the areas we were avoiding addressing. The coaching process not only helped our relationship, but both of us as individuals.”

    - Jason & Julie

  • “Nic is a wise, sensitive and responsive teacher who can guide couples out of the fog of the day-to-day to discover the power of their connections. In between demanding professional lives and kids, we had struggled to prioritise our connection and lamented our lack of intimacy. Through a considered mix of theory and practice, Nic’s course enabled us to break through our barriers and secure a much better sense of both ourselves and us as a couple. While the topics and discussions were sometimes uncomfortable, the progress we made meant the process was worth it. Life is too short to miss out on those many special moments that organically occur when two people genuinely connect both emotionally and physically. Nic was a powerful catalyst for us and we have no hesitation in recommending his counsel and support.”

    - Michael & Jess

  • “We are genuinely grateful to be living our amazing lives together, grateful for the strength of our love, grateful that we each harbour some serious affection and desire for one another... I could go on. Challenges still exist, but we are well equipped to collectively deal with them with aligned values and optimistic outcomes. So, thanks! Your support during that time has helped us reach where we are today. Many positive vibes and much gracious respect your way.”

    - K & T