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The (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship

The (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship


Brother, welcome and thank you for your interest in the (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship Program!


I imagine that somehow you have found yourself here after feeling a deep call to create a life ON PURPOSE. To be fully engaged in meaningful work that, not only feels great and pays great, but is providing a valuable service to other people and to the world.


Just by the fact that you have got this far I feel confident that you have a deep realisation that your life is meant for something greater than mediocrity. That there is a deep and profound urge to make your life count for something. And that, while you’ve come a long way so far, you get the value of having the guidance of a man who has:


  • walked the path before you
  • who has mapped the terrain in his own way
  • who has made plenty of mistakes that you can also learn from
  • who has lived a full and vibrant life and faced it all, heart wide open
  • who has been a practicing psychotherapist working with thousands of men from all walks of life since 2008.
  • and who has established a successful coaching business


Well you’re in the right place and I’m grateful you’re here. Read on.

The Purpose

When I first got into men’s work about 20 years ago, the two core elements I sought were; deep and powerful mentorship and the support and brotherhood of good men who were also doing their best to navigate the gifts and challenges of manhood in today’s world. At that time this was something sorely lacking in my life and something I strongly needed. I have been extremely fortunate to have had some amazing mentors and I continue to benefit from many deep brotherhood connections, and this will always be an immensely important part of my life. To have a deep connection with like minded, like hearted men who have your back, who can call you on your crap, and who can go deep with you and meet you in all that you are, no holds barred, is a rare and powerful thing! And for men like you and I, who are ready and willing to do the work necessary to BE the best man we can be, to live as a force for love in the world, it is not only useful, it is essential!


Approximately 25 years ago after a near death experience and subsequent journey with PTSD and depression I made a commitment to make my life’s work a dedication to support men and boys, to serve the world by helping men become the best men they can be. I have been immensely privileged to work with hundreds of men from all walks of life as a coach, facilitator and psychotherapist, from CEOs to violent perpetrators, from special forces opps to spiritual seekers. I have been consistently humbled by this work and I am utterly grateful for this opportunity to play an important role in their life. This work has been profound, powerful and sorely needed in the world, not only for the men themselves, but for all who’s life they touch.


This work has of course evolved as my own life journey has. There have been many twits and turns, growth edges and challenges. As I have continued to place myself humbly at the feet of my work I have had to respond to the ways it needs to adapt and change according to the need of my audience and how I can best serve. I recently came to the understanding that my mens work needed to take a big shift. What has become apparent is that my work has become bigger than me alone, and what is now needed is for me to bring other men forward to take on the task of assisting the evolution of manhood, to bring forth the next generation of (R)Evolutionary Men! The (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship is the answer to the expansion of this work.


I have seen some amazing growth over the years that I have been involved in this work and I can still see some crucial areas in our world where we need good men to play a big part in the continued evolution of humanity.

We need men who are:

  • actively doing the work to integrate their full spectrum selves
  • engaged in clearing all that is in the way of living a full life
  • who are ready to serve from a place beyond personal agenda and self importance
  • who have the emotional and spiritual competency to truly hold another through their growth


The world is crying out for good men to play a crucial role in the way that only they can. This is where I can best serve now – to help other men like you to bring their unique gifts to the world, to help men discover, develop and LIVE their SOUL’s deepest PURPOSE, and to be their guide and companion along their journey.

The (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship is
  • A year long training program, equipping you with the knowledge and skills to be a Sole Centred Coach, facilitator or healer
  • A deep initiatory program for men who are driven to make their life matter
  • An opportunity to work towards specific goals and growth areas in life, love and purpose
  • An opportunity to gain from the mistakes and triumphs, the wisdom and insights of a man who’s been where you are, who has walked his walk and successfully created an amazing life dedicated to his Soul Mission.
  • An arena where you get to go deep into your interior, chase your shadows, clear what’s in the way of you fully showing up and living ON PURPOSE
  • A place to learn, explore and apply the practicalities of Soul centred business and entrepreneurship, where you are fully supported to align your life to your Soul’s purpose.  
  • A community where we can feel safe and supported to lay our innermost truths on the line and still be met with love and support.
  • An incubator for the nourishment of our own individual and collective ideas, personal goals and creative pursuits.
Who is the (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship for

While there are no specific “pre-requisites” for a man to be accepted into this program, it is not for everyone. This is a deep commitment, both for the participant and for myself, so it is important that we have the right fit. Here is a guideline for the sort of man I feel this program will appeal to and who will fit well:


  • A man who has already committed themselves to their ongoing internal work.
  • A man who recognises that he is a continuously evolving work in progress.
  • He is ready and open to learn and grow, receive reflection and feedback but is also self responsible and directed.
  • A man who feels a deep call in the core of his being to be of service to the lives of others and to the world. And he has a strong desire to create a life and career aligned with this call. 
  • He is likely feeling called to enter into a helping oriented field i.e. coaching, therapy, Tantra, bodywork, healing arts.
  • He feels aligned with me, my message and the way I work
  • He is HUNGRY and ready to go
The Structure

The (R)Evolutionary Man Mentorship is a combination of live in-person video training, recorded video training and group support with a closed community of men who are also on the journey.


When you enroll you will get:


  • A year of in-depth mentoring support
  • Fortnightly 2 hour live video training and mentorship sessions
  • Fortnightly check in calls with your buddy
  • ongoing feedback, support and practice suggestions within the community group
  • Membership to a closed Facebook group where we can be connected and in communication between calls
  • Opportunities to attend and assist at some of Nic’s events throughout the year
  • Access to regular support from me or other members of the group
  • Certification as a (R)Evolutionary Man Coach upon completion

So brother, does this feel like something you want to be a part of?

If you’re feeling the call then click the button below to book in a suitable time to have an introductory call to discuss your needs, answer any questions and make sure we’re a good fit.

I look forward to hearing from you soon and continuing onto this next chapter of your journey together.